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THIS HAPPENS VOL XV & XVII


THIS HAPPENS VOL XV 

Dr. Gangadhar Sahoo


My younger granddaughter, hardly 7years old  and I were playing student and teacher.  I am used to be the student, my wife plays the role of my  parent and my  granddaughter plays the role of the teacher. Anytime she finds me free she will start teaching seriously. She is expert both in online and offline teaching. She leaves no subject that is taught in her classes. Like a disciplined and serious teacher she examines my answer sheet. She is very miser in giving marks. I will fetch a big zero even when I commit a small mistake. When I disturb her she will immediately complain to  my wife ( playing the role of my parent) and ask her to make me disciplined.  Really it is a regular fun which I enjoy. 

One day during my Hyderabad stay she was teaching me on a small black board fixed to the door of her  cupboard . She was about to start writing something on the upper border   of the black board, raising her hight  with maximum limping on her toes. I just suggested her to wait till she grows to that hight and write comfortably while teaching. She immediately replied," Where will you be at that time? Will you be on this earth ?" 
I was stunned to listen to her words. She was mentally so matured ! 
Her words  reminded  me  a beautiful incidence.

It was an incidence in early 1990s. I was  attending a 12th day ritual following the death of Mr.Bahidar, a reputed person of Sambalpur Town, around 15 km from our place. It was evening time around 8pm . People had started coming , slowly the gathering had started to swell . The venue was  a  Mandap(Pandal ) on the bank of the river Mahanadi , very close to the temple Maa Samaleswari, surrounded by scenic beauties. Cool breeze was blowing. The ambience was  very much friendly for such a function to pray for the departed soul. 
The venue was well decorated like an aristocratic marriage pandal. Hindi cinema music was being continuously played. An Odia music  party had started their orchestra of spiritual songs and music with very few  audience.
 Different types of food items both veg and nonveg , drinks both soft and hard , starters, Chinese, North Indian, South Indian food were arranged systemically in different stalls. At the centerplace of the pandal a garlanded photo of Late Mr. Bahidar was seen mounted on a big decorated table with burning agarbatis and a basket of flower petals kept aside.  It is customary for the guests to offer floral tributes to the departed soul . Some senior persons were seen in white dresses and offering  towels as the local customary and  as a mark of respect . But the  younger  generation with their kids were seen  in their seasonal dresses with a gift envelope in their pockets . They were putting the gift envelope at the foot of the photo, offering the floral tributes and going for their dinner. They were enjoying the dinner as if  that of a marriage party reception. 

There, I marked a group of young kids of around 5 to 7 years old  playing in one corner of the Mandap. They appeared to be friends of the granddaughter of late Mr.Bahidar. They were enjoying their game because they were meeting their friend after a long gap. Out of curiosity I came closer to them to know what is the topic of discussion. Two of them were seriously discussing something.  One of her friends asked her , " How old was your grandfather? What had happened to him ?"
She replied, " My grandfather was around 80 years old He was bedridden with 5 tubes introduced through different routes and orifices of his body . My mother was telling that these 5 tubes were the lifelines of my grandfather. Doctors told  that he had a stroke with severe intracranial hemorrhage. He was critical . He was  unconscious for about a month. "
" Who was  looking after your grandfather as both of your parents are working? "asked the friend. 
The girl said, " Two servants, one medical attendant and my parents after their office work were taking all possible care . They were all exhausted for last one month.  Taking care of an unconscious patient, doing the office work and looking after the house hold works simultaneously was really terrible .  God forbids his illness was not prolonged. Not only he was suffering , whole family was suffering . I had also suffered in my studies . Now onwards paeace will prevail ."
Immediately her friend told , " My grandmother of around 75 years, suffering from a serious disease and  is bedridden for more than one month. My father was telling that she had least chance of survival. Yes ! I have experienced the same unhappiness in my family as  yours .  I will tell my father to arrange the rituals preferably in an hotel and in a better and more aristocratic way. I will invite all my friends. We will enjoy the whole evening that day. I will inform you ."
This discussion created a volcanic eruption in my mind. The so called modern changes  has destroyed the deep rooted culture of our society.  Invalid , diseased and bedridden parents are a burden on their families. They are the chronic nonhealing ulcers on the face of their family members. The sooner they leave this mortal world,  the better. The rituals have undergone metamorphosis to celebrations . The gift envelopes have  replaced the condolence notes .

 I apprehend it is just the beginning. The society is very fast moving towards a suicidal end game. Pray Lord Jagannath to rebuild the  social fabrics where only peace will prevail irrespective of contrasting situations, both in pain and pleasure, in hope and despair and in life and death. 


 


 

THIS CAN HAPPEN XVII
Dr. Gangadhar Sahoo

 


Before 1995 there was no Nursing home culture in Burla. Burla is a small town developed on the bed of River Mahanadi. When the Hirakud dam , the longest earthen dam was built across this river in 1949 the quarters were constructed for the accommodation of all categories of staff required for the construction of the dam .  After the dam work was completed these Government quarters were sold on lease basis to private parties, mainly the business communities. The Burla market was built by those people. The big halls constructed during that period was converted to schools, a residential blind school , school for deaf and dumb  , hospital , post office and community centers. Gradually the township developed . In due course three centers of excellence were developed an university (The Sambalpur University), an  Engineering college(University College of Engineering) and a medical college (VSS Medical College) , the 2nd Medical College of Odisha , first being SCB Medical College Cuttack. 

This medical college grew in stature and reputation because of the efficient faculties and excellent surgeons. Not only people of Odisha but from bordering states like MP and Bihar were getting quality service at an affordable cost. One small private pathology clinic, Gupta Diagnostic Center owned by a local doctor started functioning. Now it has grown in stature  of any advanced center in the country . The owner of this diagnostic center came up with a private nursing home , The Gupta Nursing. This nursing home was started in a private rented house . I was one of those fortunate consultants who was a regular visitors. To start with it was very dull . Slowly it picked up .

Here just at the initial stage , I was doing one CS of a lady doctor, wife of a gynaecologist, for placenta previa( placenta situated in the lower segment of the uterus) with bleeding. All necessary investigations were done, the best anaesthesiologist available at that time and a senior paediatrician were in my team.  She was Rh-negative . Since it was a rare group, one unit of cross matched blood was kept ready . Two donors of same ABO & Rh-negative  group were kept as stand-by for emergency situations. 

When everything was ready the operation was started under spinal anesthesia. When I  opened the abdomen I saw large blood vessels across the anterior surface of the uterus. Not only these  vessels challenged , but also frightened me . I took a deep breath, alerted the anaesthesiologist, the pediatrician and my assistant to be on the toes for any exigency because I have to cut through the placenta if required. When I cut the uterine wall there was placenta through and through, peeping through the incision. It was difficult to separate the placenta . I have to cut through. There was torrential bleeding. Without caring for it I delivered the baby , immediately clamped the cord , collected the cord blood for necessary investigations and handed over the baby to the paediatrician. There was severe bleeding. Anaesthesiologist administered uterotonics was  preparing to convert to general anaesthesia . Placenta was delivered. Bleeding stopped. We started closing the uterus. About five minutes had passed. I couldn't hear the baby's cry. 
I immediately went to see the baby, leaving my assistant to close the abdomen after proper washing the peritoneal cavity. 

The baby was not crying , not breathing properly .  Paediatrician was busy with throat suction, oxygen supplementation and all possible methods of manual stimulation , but of no avail.  He had started sweating.  I couldn't control myself.  I lost my temper and  shouted at the paediatrician, " Why making delay ? Intubate immediately."  But to my bad luck neither  he was aware of the procedure nor he was ready for that  .The anaesthesiologist took charge of it . Baby laryngoscope was not available nor the neonatal intubation tube. I could read my fate . With adult laryngoscope and larger size tube the anaesthesiologist incubated with much difficulty . But to everybody's bad luck the baby developed pneumothorax. 

This was my bad luck. I cursed myself. I had never faced such a situation earlier. 
Both the patient and her husband were my students. 
They had enough confidence on me. They had preferred me to other senior obstetricians. But I couldn't help them.  I can't think of a neonatal complication in an  operation theater , to happen in a  Rh-negative mother. It is not a mistake but a blunder. I couldn't anticipate and prepare accordingly. I should not have left the patient party to choose their paediatrician. 
As the team leader I shouldered the responsibility. 
Till date I haven’t forgiven myself.  After that fateful incidence I learned one of the greatest lessons of life. I have never faced such a situation in life. 

 


 


Viewers Comments


  • Nitu Mishra

    First article depicts the changing mentality of the new generation and their loosing values in life. Changing meaning of relationships and devaluing the rituals and culture. And its so deep rooted that it is nearly impossible to instill some moral values in the behavior of new generation. Second article beautifully narrating the mental state of an an Obstetrician and he or she looses a perfectly healthy mother or baby. Some incidents in life are so traumatic that it causes a permanent scar in the memories.... Best way to deal with such memories is to narrate it and face it.... Very emotional writeups by respected Sahoo sir...

    Oct, 25, 2023
  • PRASANTA KUMAR NAYAK

    Great narration of the two real life stories. The first one for social building and awareness to correctly point out that how the current generation is forgetting the values. The second one is very useful for the medical fraternity and is a lesson to learn from our experienced teachers and seniors. Thanks a lot sir for such great narrations.

    Oct, 25, 2023
  • Dr Gangadhar Sahoo, EX DEAN IMS AND Ex Pro V C SOA University

    I thank all the readers who have gone through my articles and special thanks to them who have taken pain to analyze and put down their comments. Their inputs are the motivating factors me . Pray Lord Jagannath to bless them all .

    Oct, 25, 2023
  • Dr Gangadhar Sahoo, EX DEAN IMS AND Ex Pro V C SOA University

    I thank all the readers who have gone through my articles and special thanks to them who have taken pain to analyze and put down their comments. Their inputs are the motivating factors me . Pray Lord Jagannath to bless them all .

    Oct, 25, 2023
  • Shreyasee Behera

    I read the articles written by our respected Dean Sir. Both the articles were definite eye openers. The first one gives an insight to the current situation of generational relationships, which appears to be painfully tainted in this case. It’s quite desolating to hear. In the second article, it has been clearly portrayed that the medical profession is not without vanquish. Thank you so much Sir for giving us exposure to these events in your life. They’re definitely going to help us through in the long run.

    Oct, 24, 2023
  • Varsha Bhuyan

    Two articles are like a double edge sword .Moving line to line one will get filled with learning curves and other a emotional truth about life i.e more social life so. Very much touchy and special for me . Some are vulnerable to it . But im feeling punished being watching people going through the stages of life , peculiar reactions by society and family. Now the story of Lord Buddha feels real ,how he was affected by seeing the realities of life,oldage ,death.Realised as thought provoking rather than mere stories. Yes, i agree we have single life . We should live to fullest. Should remain happy. Should celebrate. But not in inhuman way . A man without culture ,custome and emotions is not less a animal. Only emotions of happines is not the only desire of life . Sympathy ,empathy, honesty ,self respect,sacrifices are things that make us human . Mery making does not make us human always . Nor our professional achievements ,money or man power.It takes many things to be a social man and a lot sacrifice by family to rear such a child of future. Every single life is precious and too nothing to mingle with universe physically and spiritually at the end. It feels very mundane to see young generation behaviour and understandings towards our culture and reason behind each traditional, rituals from Ocassions of birth and death. The second article a learning field for me . Sir has show to be a great professional and skilful but never step back to accept the wrose happing even he is not the solely responsible care giver . Its really commandable to handle new cases with least facilities. That why how rich we may be in equipment the most important thing is between those ear piece of sethoscope not the sethoscope i.e our brain ..As sir always says When mind does not know eyes can't eye. My prayer and wishes before Maa Druga Always blessed under your guidance ????

    Oct, 24, 2023
  • Dr Gangadhar Sahoo, EX DEAN IMS AND Ex Pro V C SOA University

    To the query of Prof. SOMNATH ROY CHOWDHURY, the baby expired within few minutes of the chest complication. Mother was OK. One major thing I lost for ever is the confidence of the mother and her husband ( both are my students) on me . In her next pregnancy they changed their consultant.

    Oct, 24, 2023
  • Dr Smita Panda

    The First article written by Sahu sir is the real truth prevailing in present situation. We should pray God to keep us healthy & happy till last Breath. The take home message is....We have to avoid depending on the next generation for our care & comfort...The way of funeral celebration should be stopped and only paying hearty tribute with love is needed.???????? The second article is an unfortunate incident...An eminent OG specialist like sahu sir faced such an incident due to bad luck only..There are certain mishapps likely to occur instead of complete readiness we have to accept it with our blaming any one????

    Oct, 24, 2023
  • Akshaya Kumar Pradhan

    In both the articles, my beloved writer has expressed his concerned with lot of emotions and has rightly pointed out about the degradation of social value. The so-called western culture is trying to over ride our Sanatan culture, but it can't succeed, take it for sure. We the parents and elders are responsible for that. Mother tongue is being given less priority over western languages and some of the young parents feel proud that their children are unable to read and write in mother vernacular and they don't feel ashamed of telling it to their neighbour or guest. They feel proud of their dollar earning children even though the chances of their returning back to them is remote. Then how can their grand children take the snips of Sanatan Culture described in Ramayan & Mahabharata where duty and devotion of children to their parents are so high. In the second article of neonatal complications, Dr. Sahoo has expressed his honesty and accountability, but I am sure, the unfortunate parents could never have found a good doctor like you, their selection of Padeatric doctor is a matter of chance without thinking so much about the new born and its medical complicacy. In this case, law of Karma again prevails. Being so much spiritually deep rooted, you should not allow your emotions to upheaval so much. Try to compare the fate of Abhimanyu and that Yadu vans before becoming so much emotional. I am always with your professional proficiency and do believe the Law of Karma, which fits in all most all cases of our daily happening. Keep yourself cool and composed.

    Oct, 23, 2023
  • Dr Renuka Sahu

    Wonderful write ups Sir. We should do our job with good intention and sincerity. "obstetrics is miraculously unpredictable, man proposes and God disposes, every thing is not in our control", are the lessons taught by you, give some relief in aforementioned circumstances. Thank so much Sir. Keep showering your blessings.

    Oct, 22, 2023
  • Prafulla Baral

    Nice one. Read in one go, enjoyed too.

    Oct, 22, 2023
  • Ramesh Mohapatra

    Gangadhar,childhood innocence is OK,but d irony is that elders tend to become immature enough in not being able to distinguish life,birth and death and celebrate over d demise of an elder.In another sense to celebrate is forget the departed one asap. Medical Accidents do occur even with d best of hands.So if one has performed to d bast of his knowledge,skill and care ,one need not remorse though such an accident may leave a long lasting scar in heart and mind.

    Oct, 22, 2023
  • Dr Saumya Nanda

    Two beautiful life lessons penned by Prof Dr Gangadhar Sir. One cannot overemphasise the proverb- Health is wealth. Children learn from our actions rather than what we teach and preach them. Life doesn’t progress as we plan, a bad unfortunate incident makes us stronger and wiser!!

    Oct, 22, 2023
  • ABHIJIT PATI

    Very well and inner feelings came out clearly. You have always a different style to exhibit your emotions. This article is superb and heart touching. Keep on impressing all of us with your magic pen.

    Oct, 22, 2023
  • Somnath Roy Chowdhury

    Sir You showed true emmpyion as a human being alongwith being a responsible med practitioner. But finally result....what happened to mother & baby ?

    Oct, 22, 2023
  • Dr Pratibha Jena

    Both the articles by Prof Gangadhar Sahoo Sir depicts what the society values are going towards and how sometimes we are not able to deal with situations .

    Oct, 22, 2023
  • Nupur Nandi Maiti

    Both the articles vol.15 n 17 makes us bound to rethink ( insight). So called Civilization makes a toll on values!

    Oct, 22, 2023
  • Rachita sarangi

    Being a pediatrician i know how important is the preparedness of neonatal resuscitation...we never know which baby may need that beyond our expectations. So elaborative and vivid description of a real scene .

    Oct, 22, 2023
  • Prof P K Modi

    Sir, I know you and your emotion. I have felt personally in many cases. But you have such a spiritual strength that you have never allowed you emotional feelings to overtake professional work. But these articles have cleared your inner spaces. Such acceptance of emotional weakness or strength makes one pure. I sincerely offer my pranam to you. These articles bring tears to my eyes.

    Oct, 17, 2023
  • Dr Priyambada Panda

    Very interesting and heart touching stories both above articles are. The first article made me enthusiastic to know about the morality behind the kids play, which they manifested as they found from their seniors. The proper morality is degrading day by day, which is really a great question to our values. The second article is real emergency situation, which almost most experienced medical professionals have faced in their life time specially with ill equiped conditions. Very heart touching. Thank you Sir for sharing your all types of life experiences through which we also get a chance to experience the life lessons ????????????????????????

    Oct, 14, 2023
  • Dr.Pradyumna Kumar Padhi

    In article XV by Respected Prof.Dr.Gangadhar sir, the lesson is if being so called modern make a human being to forget all the sacrifices his bed ridden father or mother had done for them to be in a state where they stand today,then it's better to leave all those so called modernization.People forget that Time Waits for none and Karma has the paying back policy with double interests.Everyone will grow old in the course of time and sadly there is no escaping route.Everyone will loose energy, Strength and will be dependent for help in that helpless stage of life.Life is not about greedyness or walking away from accountability.It's all about mutualism.The investment parents do for a child by sacrificing their personal comforts to raise a kid is the debt a kid has to pay back when the parents grow older and it's also true that a kid even can't repay back 10% of what the parents do for them.But atleast that 10% of heartly given efforts will give a satisfied end to all the sacrifices.Hope this generation will realise it with time left in their hand. In the 2nd article sir has perfectly narrated the professional aspect regarding the case management and the probable complications.more importantly it takes a lot of courage to accept mistakes too and it shows the honesty of a person to ownself as well as the society.

    Oct, 12, 2023
  • Dr.Anushna Kar

    So it's another part of this beautiful article written... A real life experience, formulae to handle the phases of life depicted here.. Worth reading.

    Oct, 05, 2023
  • Monalisa Pal

    Both the article are wonderful..it makes me realise one thing,today's generation and children they are so much modernised in era of mobile phones and internet that they will never realise the value of family...and always we need.to.learn from.our mistakes Thank you sir

    Oct, 01, 2023
  • Rajashree Behera

    Both the article really give life lessons...our health should be our priority.... hurting ourselves is not the solution...we have to control ourselves and fight to bring a good life....and the second one says about introspection which is the best way to correct ourselves ....and the best thing is to correct the mistakes that we have done...

    Sep, 30, 2023
  • Karabi Sanyal

    A real life expirience. We always learn at the cost of something . But to take the responsibility for the unforeseen complication is so humane from your side sir. We should learn from this.

    Sep, 30, 2023
  • Tripti Swarnkar

    The first content depicts the fact of life and leaves us with the very fact that health is wealth. It doesn't matter how long you leave it matters that till the time you are alive you should not be dependent on anyone however good or caering your family is. Second write up reflects the confession which is the best way to correct self. Inspite of blaming others for the happenings we should see where we could have corrected ourself to avoid such situations. We are human beings and are prune to mistakes, if we are able to correct it with time we are learning and that helps us to make an Intelligent creature of God.

    Sep, 30, 2023

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